What is this meaning of this word.it has has been used and misused in different context and different circumstance.let see how English language define it
failure can be define as lack of success,non -success,non-fulfillment,abortion,miscarriage,defeat,frustration,collapse.
The world has made us feel at times a failure and not worth but true failure is when the inner man accept it and settles there.failure is a temporary resort not a place to stay for long.
as an individual you should desire to succeed and hate to loose.it should come from within.realize i have not said that you wont fail but you should not allow fail to define you.
The biggest mistake we make as human we personalize failure and accept it and allow it to define us”am a failure”.NO failure is not something to internalize and accept it in our life as trait or a belonging.you must cast it away and climb out of it.
The biggest question is how do we respond when failure knocks us down.i have 3 simple ways on how to respond to it
- Don’t allow it to take you down.
fail and raise up .fail again and raise up again and don’t see it has stumbling block but vision it has opportunity to learn more ways of not doing that particular thing in that manner.
2.Don’t dwell on that failure
what we tend to do wrong is we dwell on it like an hen giving warmth to her egg .failure should not be a state of mind where you give your think and stuck on it.it happen and move from it
3.learn from that failure
“those who don’t learn from the past we will tend to repeat it”learn from your failure and take note if you have to so as you wont repeat it again