This a common human trait that should be checked.
we tend to give power of our life by blaming people for our downfall or of our unsuccessful life.
let me remind you that your life comes from you and you alone.
we all blame the society,the system sometimes our parents ,our relationships,our background or our upbringing and list continues.
we need to realize that we are given 24 hours and 7 days just like everyone and anyone in this amazing world and given the same opportunity and same chances just like anyone
what makes us not see the big picture is the art of blaming and giving away the power to change your environment and cross examine your decisions /choices.
There is a power of owing your mistakes,your environment or background.The power is you know where you are and you will find away out.
if you want to change your story,if you want to change your environment you have to take the responsibility and find the solution to your problem.