Justification is when you rationalize or create a reason for your anger and unhappiness.This occurs where you go and tell anyone who is ready to listen on how you feel mistreated and how the world has been unfair.
This problem has taken in many individuals down and made them slave of an action because they believe what they are going through is as a result of someone else mistake or what they went through before was difficult and they feel like the world is owing them.
let me tell you of a story. There was a man who had put all his hard working years in a particular company. he gave his time and effort in that particular organisation and he become a part of the organisation and the organisation also was a part of him. when someone thought of the organisation the face of him could always pop up. When the guy was about to enjoy his retirement benefit and obvious his years could attract high bonuses . He woke up like any other day to his office and met a letter informing him that he was fired.
The guy got wounded and kept on telling anyone and everyone he could meet . He explain how he toiled his best years in the organisation and the organisation was not fair to him in spite of all the toil and headache he got from that organisation. He didn’t watch who was telling as long as he got someone to listen. He got a job after he was fired and he kept on telling his new colleague of the incident that he started to look wired and people started avoiding him. he wanted sympathy and he was justifying why is life was miserable.
yes it hurts and i don’t want that to happen to any person even to my worse enemy but telling everyone how you were badly treated won’t change the situation or how dreadful the other person behaved won’t make the pain less painful.
There is this famous quote” if there is no solution,there is no problem”. until you find the solution, there will be no problem. stop looking for justification and work out a solution to your problem. stop complaining and pointing fingers to people but start working on you.
I need you to stop looking for sympathy from people but start working for the betterment of you. yes ,you may had the hardest life, hardest marriage,complicated relationship, people may have used you but that’s the past . The biggest question is what are you doing about it.
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