Gillian is a seven-year old girl who cannot sit in school. She continually gets up, get distracted, flies with thought and doesn’t follow lessons. Her teacher worry about her, punish her, scold her, reward her a few times that she is attentive, but nothing. Gillian does not know to sit and cannot be attentive.
When she comes home, her mother punishes her too. So not only does she, Gillian have bad grades punishment at school but she also suffers from them at home.
One day. Gillian’s mother is called to the school. The lady, sad as someone waiting for bad news, takes her hand and goes to the interview room, the teacher speak of illness of an obvious disorder .maybe its hyperactivity or maybe she needs a medication
During the interview an older teacher arrives who knows the little girl, he asks all the adults, mother, and colleagues, to follow him into an adjoining room from where she can still be seen. As he leaves, he tells Gillian that they will be back soon and turns on an old radio with music.
As the girl is alone in the room, she immediately gets up and begin to move up and down chasing the music in the air with her feet and her heart. The teacher smiles as the colleagues and the mother look at him between confusion and compassion, as is often done with the old.so he say’s
“see? Gillian is not sick Gillian is a dancer
He recommends that her mother take her to a dance class and that her colleagues make her dance from time to time. she attends her first lesson and when she gets home she tell her mother
Everyone is like me, no one can sit there
In 1981, after a career as a dancer, opening her own dance academy and receiving international recognition for art, Gillian Lynne became the choreographer of the musical “cats”
Hopefully all “different” children find adults capable of welcoming them for who they are and for what they lack.
Long live the differences, the little black sheep and the misunderstood. They are the ones who create beauty in this world
So when you feel like you don’t belong, when nothing you do is acceptable at the time just know that your uniqueness or your difference is what makes you stand out. So be you, do you, and be comfortable in your own skin.
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Mental illness has been overlooked in most part of the globe, The have overlooked it has a stage especially in the youth and the young adult. Its time we stop to overlook it and start facing it head on.
Growing up teenagers experience new external and internal struggles that can be emotionally overwhelming. The fact that we are so busy focusing on bills and some of the daily activities that we fail to notice and if we do we assume them as a phase or something they will out grow with time. according to the youth.gov,1 in 5 youth meets the criteria for a severe mental health disorder.11% of teens report suffering at least one major depressive episode this including thoughts of suicide just in the past year.
as a group we have decide to take time and identify some of the triggers and some solution at it’s best
It has come to our attention that it is important that teen’s thought and feelings are validated appropriately instead of being dismissed. i know you might have had a very big day, you might have scrub shoulders with your boss or a deal has gone wrong but when you come home you are the mummy or the daddy of the house. when your child comes to you ,matter how tired you are or matter how stupid the topic is just listen and validate their thought. know this that healthy and true friendship can help Teens work through emotional challenges. Kindly note when the mental challenge becomes worrisome kindly rush the child to a professional.
We all want to fit in and mostly to be liked by others.honestly Adolescent feel pressure more than any other stage. There are common peer pressure at this age, the pressure to enage in sexual act since they don’t want to be seen as virgins, the pressure to take drugs such Alcohol and too look like someone else this is from the mode of dressing to the mode of doing things, little do we put we keen interest but is considered as a trigger to low-self esteem or even depression
As a parent you need to affirm your children that they are perfect in their own way . That their difference is what makes them them. constantly reminding them that self-worth doesn’t rely on how other people see them. This will control the urge in alcohol or sex.
3, PRESSURE TO SUCCED IN SCHOOL
Well we all want our kids to perform and get great grades but little do we know the type of pressures and anxiety it brings to our kids. The urge to succeed has made our children develop a sense of fear due to the scolding they get from their parent and the harsh treatment they get from their teacher and worse is when their own schoolmate consider them as failures, you may think that it only affect the average student but it also affect the top student.Top students experience this form of anxiety because of the need to prove and maintain a academic status. This happens when students haven’t understand how to cope with failure and this can lead them to be less motivated or demotivated them completely
Have you ever wonder why extra-curriculum was incorporated in school. it was brought up after it was discovered youth perform better and grow better because it boost the confidence and self-esteem. my request as parent you should reassure your kids that their more than academic excellence and failure to it it doesn’t mean that the end of life. keep reminding them nothing will ever take our the love you have for them.
4. Worry of the future
we all get scared of the future and sometimes it takes toll in us. what about our children. our children do worry about the future, things like what they are going to be, which collage are their going to enroll and will they get accepted or rejected. The fear of being an adult and making their own decision also has been seen has trigger. The young adult may what to make a decision for their future but society may make them feel unfit to make their own sound decision.
proper and safe monitoring of our kids can help them identify their strengths and this will help one to concentrate on it and enable them to make sound decision for the future. It advocated to hear what they want and rather than telling them (no). find out what was his or her dream or point of focus. There is away to direct a child without making them feel attacked but loved and protected
We all have good intention and we all want our kids to perform but the amount of pressure we exerts our kids sometimes it too much. we are always constant competition with the next big performance push our young one on excellence.
yes it isn’t bad but it has been discovered that parent are among the first trigger of succidical cases and mental health problem.
parents should understand that criticism can be very emotionally challenging and parent should be reward their teen when a task is well performed. sometime is okay to walk together rather than pointing the direction. All the stress can also be mitigated rather than threatening
Technology has never been the same since it all started and the social media has created a new phase in our youth’s life. social media made them so trapped on their phone and creating a new form of co-dependence. They can’t survive without their phones little do they know it has a in pact in their lives. The youth of today want to be like the people who they look at which might create a sense of anxiety and hopeless and most saddening is loneliness . The times when kids could play together and make fun . The youth of today are deep in the phone screen and losing the human contact which can be very unhealthy to a growing being. The teen to lose their social capability
There is something that the modern world is currently facing commonly known as cyberbullying which is a serious problem . This has number of unexplained incident. This same technology has created room for hate speech and so much more.
sometimes is not bad to interact with your kids to put down their phone time to time. invest in board Games, family game night and such activities which are involving. have conversation on the harmful effect side of living online and losing the time to live.
There are many causes of stress on Youth/teen . what else do thing causes stress leave your comment below.
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You need to start earlier before anyone arrives and finish everything before anyone even starts. The secret is who started fast and finished fast. its who is delivering fast and serving fast that counts. keep in mind quality is also a factor. give quality and it will never fail you
I have discovered that the wealthiest and most talented individual started young and grew from there. There is power on experience that we tend not to appreciate or we merely ignore .we enjoy ready made things and we believe that creating waves is as easy as it looks. The degree of achievement favors the one prepared and who has the knowledge on the subject. The point is you need to start early and learn from your mistakes and so you may improve on them. stay late when everyone has left or given up. you will have enough time on that particular project if you sacrifice that time. if you want be extraordinary you need to do an extra ordinary activities. Keep in mind you are not alone in the race so when you lazy around someone new and fresh can easily over take you .
so when you want to transform your life and make it a little bit better,then start waking up early and stay a little bit late. start working on you. start working on your dreams now. stop procrastinating and stop pushing everything in the future. Matter how advance modern medicine are we are not build to last forever.
let me break it down for you
Study while other are sleeping
prepare while other are daydreaming
begin while others are procrastinating
persist while others are quitting
smile while others are frowning
work while others are wishing
decide while others delaying
listen while others are talking
save while other a wasting
It all in starting earlier and staying later than your competitor that makes you stand out.hope you have enjoyed and you be starting earlier than the rest
in religious context vision has been given an up hand. “people perish without vision”. the context here is not the ability to see or the sense of sight but the ability to have a clear direction of where you are going and where you want to be.
as child in a lower classes,once you are asked who do you want to be you always had an idea. some will say the wanted to be doctors or lawyer and the list continue. The vision was so clear and gave a sense of direction.
similarly when one is asked where is he/she heading when aboard a train,bus,ferry or a plane he will give you a definite destination. one has to know where he is going and what means are there to make him reach that destination.
Take time and find out what you want and where you want to be and how will you get there.
Don’t just live and move with the wind like a fallen leave with no vision or direction. find yours and reach your destination.
There is no class made just for life, we learn by making mistakes. I started this website for the ones who are so hung up with their past mistakes, people who feel like they are not enough. The more I associate with these amazing people I discovered that they hold themselves slaves to mistakes they need ages ago.
I did my research and I discovered that the is something known as “forgiving yourself” There is a certain culture in Africa when a person makes a mistake and is bound for punishment members of the villager surrounds him or her and remains him or her the good needs he or she has done.
all I want is to remind you that you shouldn’t allow your past and current mistakes to torment you and dictate your actions. It’s high time you forgive yourself and start afresh.
so this is just for you. I hope you will forgive yourself and face the world boldly and be proud of yourself. I hope I have changed someone’s life today.
One of our soul’s purposes is to train our readers and give them a better chance to excel in life. one of my frequent readers asked, “how he could improve his productivity in a world of distraction?”. we had to seat and research deeper to provide a better answer with a more mature understanding.
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we live in a world where the focus is even more important than your intelligence. This is where you maintain your focus on one particular thing and give it time to flourish. The problem of today is we are in a world where every corner there is a screen, stereo, dating apps, Gaming, bars, clubs, pandemic, and the list continues. Hence the ones who climb to the tops are the people who were able to overcome this distraction and maintain their focus on their goals.
“an addiction to distraction will be the death of your creative production”
The high-level people do work that matters and they don’t mix themselves with things that do not add value to their business or lives. The 99% are trapped in a maze doing things that do not add value and when they discover that their lives have gaps they can’t find what they actually used their did at that particular moment.
we have come up with 3 points that we hope will help you become productive.
For the next 90 days use your 90 minutes at work and focus on a single most important project. This rule will actually help you form a habit that will actually improve your productivity. The 90 days will bring out a pattern that will eventually become a habit and with time the 90 days will turn into a whole year.
Tight bubbles of Total focus.
create an environment that allows you to focus. close doors, and switch off all screens. Be very hard to reach on certain days at key times of the week. Have time for your project, work, investment, or better yet for yourself. The bubble is meant that you focus entirely on one specific goal and nothing else, do not add three projects, or two tasks but only one thing and one thing alone. The energy that you will use on other things will be used on one particular thing and perfection and performance will not be far-fetched.
choose your peer Group really well
This is most talked about but less actualized. excuses that are commonly talked about are “they are our people, we grew together, we are related, we are neighbors, we work together”. This excuse has to stop and start to surround yourself with people who are playing in the same circle am not saying you should excommunicate with your people but spend more time with people who push you to success than people who gossip about people who are successful.
The secret of genius is not complexity but its simplicity. focus on one thing and be patient for it grows with time if you are good at multi-tasking the highest I can suggest is 3 projects. my reader focus on a few priorities, they will allow you to grow.
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Have you ever felt low, have you ever felt like something is missing?. like what you are doing is not worthwhile or good enough. This article is for you
The world has a tendency of making you feel like you are not enough. we are living in a social media world, where people fake their lifestyle, and those who are genuinely living the high life, they only show the final product and not the real struggle.
My beloved reader it is time for you to appreciate every struggle, every up, and down. I need you to not compare yourself with anyone. everyone has a journey, so keep in mind they will never be the same. what you see in him or her is the result of hard work, patience, commitment, and the only difference is time.
my reader, you are enough,
you are enough in all your flaws
you are enough in all your weakness
you are enough in all mistakes.
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don’t let anyone make you feel small, don’t let anything make you feel small. you are enough hence there is nothing to hide, nothing to defend, nothing to prove.
you are enough
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The website was created to mentor young and old and I come up across these 3 habits
Rich people count their money.
The rich people count their money regularly. They keep a keen tap on how they spend their money, how much they have in their bank account, how their invest it, and the return of their investment. They take their time to know how money flows and become money literate
They pay themselves first.
This term has been looked down on for ages, people assume that there is no need to put themself first before their bills and their business but little do people know that they should always put themselves first, especially on the money issue. Let me guide you on what this actually means, this is the money you remove from your paycheck and save for your future endeavors. learn to save and pay yourself first from any money that passes through your hands.
improving their earning abilities
we are all in the same marketplace but there are people who earn more than the rest and some people are doing the same task but their end rewards differ. The secret is the rich always try to find a way to add value or look for leverage from the rest.
always find time to improve on your craft and stand out. keep finding ways to make money and become more financially stable.
“you don’t decide your future, you decide your habit and your habit decides your future.”
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They say if you want to change the world start with the man in the mirror. They might be true. we all find the need to change the people around us and we tend to forget that people only mirror what you offer.
am writing this to you not because am righteous or out of wrong but am writing to you so that you can focus on it. find the energy to look deep and correct your wrongs and build on yourself. I know it isn’t easy and please don’t get me wrong that there is something wrong with you but all I want is for you to become a better version of yourself.
I started this website to build a safe community for all races and all ages, that there is still hope when we look deep inside ourselves there is something worth celebrating. The one reading this article, I may not know what you are going through, I may not know your battles but I really know is that they all pass. This doesn’t mean you stay there saying that they are going to pass, this means you must give it your all and remove yourself from all kinds of pain by doing something. I love this quote which says “you should never settle for less when there is more out there”.
my reader gets woke and starts working on yourself, start to dream all over again. improve on the little thing and get committed to the journey. always remember you are working on progress.
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No one promised that the journey to financial freedom and happy life was easy and if it comes easy then it goes at the same speed.Am writing this for you to build up the muscles and maintain the pace and keep going.
The more you live you tend to understand that its more of the journey than the destination. So enjoy the ups and the downs they make life worth living and the destination more worth while. So when you meet trials or tribulation along the way to your dream then know your dream is worth more. The rough the journey the more rewarding the destination.
So you need to keep going , when the storm rises, keep going , keep going when flood rises, keep going when the energy in you is done . Rest and keep going .
So my reader. I have seen people succeed not because the are stronger, not wiser, not intellectual but because the keep doing one craft and kept on doing it it over and over without giving up. So I want you to succeed and see you grow.
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There is no lie that life is hard and comes with it’s challenges. The challenges aren’t there to settle but to pass and give you better perspective of life.
Am writing this to you because I once reached my form of rock bottom. Where people who were suppose to stand with me,left me in times where i needed them the most.
So my reader , when you feel alone or lost , don’t quit . when things are getting harder,Don’t lose hope. Keep your life force and stand,keep on the fight. Have a support system that holds you when you fall and gives you direction when you are lost. You shouldn’t give up.
We are living Ina world where everyone is trying to out shine the other and competition has become our national anthems. This has divided families and friends. The need to be better than the rest has created a void that even money can never fill. Am here not to widen the void but to help you fill that void with trust and faith that things will workout.
So the secret to overcome any challenge. As follows
1.Research on the challenge.
Having proper knowledge on the problem. You need to take time to understand the challenge from within and it means you need to go through books , online materials on that set Problem and define and redefine the challenge. The way a doctor needs to understand the root cause of any ailment to give out a prescription same you need to understand the challenge in detail.
2. Cause and effect.
Some of the challenges that we pass through are caused by us, some can say that our storms are our own making and we time blame the society or the environment but the root cause was we ignored the real cause that brought us at that point. Everything we do always have consequences. So it’s better to avoid a storm by doing what is right than doing something that will bring problems in your life.
3. Consult and get advice.
There is nothing new on this earth . What you are currently going through right now,there was someone who went through the same problem and he or she over come it and did certain things to stand again hence try to get advice from people who went through the same problem and stood again .
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We are not born perfect hence don’t be hard on yourself. Allow yourself to make mistakes, allow yourself to break down and cry but promise me that you will learn from every failure, from every setbacks , from every rejection so you can grow. #motivationalspeaker #MotivationChallenge #motivationalquotes
We are all want a perfect life with no worries. The fact still remains we are human and error is part of the process.
Am writing this to you because of the pressure of our world today is so overwhelming . The need to be rich fast and accumulate wealth quick. Has made us not to enjoy the quality of life and created in unnecessary depression and anxiety.
So my reader don’t be too hard on yourself. Just enjoy the process and grow from your mistakes.
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